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The day I ‘fan girled out’ and became a domestic Goddess

I’ve not had time to cook – and need to be in the mood.  We’ve been eating crap.  I’m not going to lie.  Ready made meals for the men of the house, and as for me?  I eat when I’m hungry only and will participate in anything that is available.

So I downloaded a recipe or two and was determined to make them!

Eggplant Lasagna – which I’ve never made, but have enjoyed.  And, I knew I had to make some quiches again.

3 day weekend – perfect time to do this!

Oh, and as for the fan girling – that has everything to do with the Force Friday – the Force Awakens released some toys, and if you’re any kind of consistent follower of mine, you know I’m a total action figure/collectible nerd and was eager to see what was out!

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George Lucas was quoted as saying he made movies he wanted to watch.

I remember pretending to be the Princess on the primary school playground.

I had the original action figures – (where, oh WHERE are they now?!)

It fed my fantasy mind.

When Empire Strikes Back came out, I squealed in the theater.  I did the same for the next 4 movies – regardless of their merit.  I. Love. Star Wars.

End of story.

So, today, we went and checked out the toys!  I couldn’t buy any, but SO wanted Luke.  (We have to assume there’s a flashback, because he’s young in this action figure AND there’s one of Darth!)

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(Yeah, you can see they were pretty much sold out – but there’s Luke. 😦 I wanted him to come home with me.)

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In the second photo from the top, you can see the figure gripping my finger.  I think it wanted to come home with me too. 😉

OK. So after fan girling out, we went to the 99 cent store.

This is where I vent.

I paid freaking $3.00 per piece for the eggplants I needed at Safeway.  When we were in the 99 cent store, guess what I stumbled upon??

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Seriously???????????

We left with a 10 pound bag of potatoes for 99 cents by the way.

I’m definitely shopping there first for produce from now on!

OK! So the domestic Goddess part.

I made the infamous $6.00 eggplant lasagna.

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Which, was more labor intensive than I thought – but SO worth it.  Delicious!!!!

Was also the first time I worked with Ricotta cheese, and it was fun!

Then I did the quiches.

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The men of the house are dubious about the eggplant, but loopy over the quiche – which is good.

It’s so nice to have fresh, homemade food in the house.  Having an extra day off was a definite motivator to be in the domestic mood today.

If they don’t cotton to the eggplant lasagna, I’m fine with that.  It’s mine! ALL MINE! Muah-ha-ha!!!!!!!!

I did make them take a bite though, and they both liked it.

Dammit.

Wishing all of you a happy weekend – and … may the force be with you!

Musings from the Laundromat: The frail man

The frailest man was filling a machine and I stood staring, unable to look away.  I knew I had to photograph him – no matter who saw me do it.

Here he is.

 

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His pants are at least 3 sizes too big on him.  He shuffles.  He gingerly filled his laundry detergent cup and of course, I instantly wanted to wrap him in soft tissue and put him in my pocket.

He’s shuffled outside now, where he went, I don’t know.  I’m just glad it’s not windy today – he may be blown off course if it were.

He found his way back – we exchanged a smile after he transferred his small load into a dryer.

It was the most lovely smile.

Then I took some more photos.  I’ve decided to name him Marvin.

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Photographing the beauty of the process of … beauty.

“the quality present in a thing or person that gives intense pleasure or deep satisfaction to the mind, whether arising from sensory manifestations (as shape, color, sound, etc.), a meaningful design or pattern, or something else (as a personality in which high spiritual qualities are manifest).”

First of all, a shout out to WORDPRESS for being VERY unavaiable when I tried to sign in on my computer.  I not only GOOGLED customer service, but tried ‘HELP!’ and eventually tried the entire internet for a legit phone number to help me log in!  I’ve been a customer for over 4 years!

C’mon now!

Anyway.

Back to the artist.

Here he is – in all his glory, and all my pride – and I hope, artistic measure.

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Artist with pencil.  But, how amazing is it that I get to capture THAT in his hand?

Then these …

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image Gawd – I LOVE this one …

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Why? Why am I hangin’ hopes on this artist?

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Because I love that he hates every picture except one.  I love that he puts EVERY wrinkle into every bum – I love that he draws dots on ‘cartoon’ wonder bread.  I love that he’s so freaking authentic that he makes my heart burst.

I love ‘cartoons’.  I love animated shows.  But, what Jim does?   It’s an artistic rendering of life LIVED.  And I love that. Love it.

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Fun with a new app

So I don’t have Photoshop at work – and do ALL of our fliers and art – even designed the logo.

Found something today that had transparent images.

So yeah – had some fun with it.

My honey is into short hair – and I am SO not.  But, when I IM’d im te photo of me with short hair – he said “You’re not fooling anyone.”

So I sent him the goatee thinking maybe that would do it?

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Then I got creative.

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Snake totally photo bombed me and my son’s girlfriend 😉

As for the hot tub – how dare they!

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On a realistic note – I’m still stressing.

Trying to live in the moment and be concious of  days and weeks and months to come – and wondering if we’re even going to get married 5 months from now.

I laugh – I cry (a lot lately) – I stay grateful – but times are tough.

I would be lying if I said things are happening the way I thought they would.

But ‘things’ are happening – and they are good things.

Have to buckle down and MAKE shite happen!

After all, if a pig can be in a hot tub, I can make a wedding happen …. no?

Big Announcement: Tony and Pepper

Sorry cats.  Apparently I shall not be adopting a dozen of you afterall.

The night of the 17th, I became engaged.

We started out taking photos as this was the last night my love was here.

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I get it.  I get it now.

Totally.

We fell into a rhythm … we were comfortable, happy, Home.

It took no effort at all.

Which is very odd. And amazing.

Late night, on the 17th – I became engaged.

I told him, “ok, ask me in the morning.”

Giving him an out.  Not trusting that my dreams were all coming true.

I awoke to confirmation.

Our time together was amazing.

We crossed most everything off of our wishlist.

And the entire time, I was never more sure or happy.

I knew, from the deepest part of my heart, that this was the man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with.

Nic said “He fit.  He was your puzzle piece.”

Butters would not leave him alone.

All I know is, starting out as friends, then growing up – is a mind blowing, humbling, amazing experience.

Having memories already.

Then respecting the person they grew into.

We’re planning a Halloween wedding.  And if I have my way?  An Iron Man cake.

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So, doesn’t look like I’m going to keel over alone and be eaten by my dog whilst decomposing.

I found the love of my life.

(By the way, he sang this song to me at karaoke – and then, as we sat in the room, while another man sang, he sang ‘Can’t help falling in love’ to me – does it get dreamier than that??)